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Ashley

Created by a licensed therapist • 15+ years in children’s mental health

If you’ve ever thought “why isn’t this working?”

It’s not you. Every child connects differently. Most parents just haven’t figured out which way their child needs yet.

In 2 minutes you’ll know:

Your child’s connection type and why some things land and others don’t

What to do differently tonight with specific, age-appropriate tips

How to stop guessing and start responding in ways they actually feel

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What's Your Child's Heart Code?

Answer 10 quick questions. Get your child’s Heart Code and what to do with it today.

First, how old is your child?

We'll tailor the questions to their age range.

Toddler
1–3 years
Toddler
Preschool
3–5 years
Preschool
Elementary
6–10 years
Elementary
Teen
11–17 years
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Cracking the Code E-Book

A deep dive into applying Heart Codes at every age, with real-life scenarios and strategies you can use tonight.

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Age-Specific Quiz Pack

Four printable quizzes tailored by age group, each with a scoring guide and connection tips.

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Quick-Reference Card

A printable cheat sheet with signs and quick tips for each Heart Code. Perfect for your fridge.

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Ashley

Built by a licensed therapist who gets it.

Ashley is a LCSW with 15+ years in children’s mental health, ADHD-certified, and mom to two neurodivergent kids.

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It takes 2 minutes, it’s free, and it might change how you connect with your child tonight.

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